The “3 Seconds Rule”

The “3 Seconds Rule” was coined by famous PUA, Mystery.  The purpose of the 3 seconds rule is to propel you to approach a woman before your fear kicks in and stop you.

When most guys see a beautiful woman, they often think, “what is she don’t like me, what if her boyfriend is around, she probably don’t like me anyway, etc.

These negative thoughts usually kicks in when you are preparing to approach and it happens to the best of us.  So, what do you do?  You approach fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation.

With the 3 seconds rule, you don’t need to wait for eye contact or for an opportunity to present itself, but rather, you will go straight in the moment to see a girl/woman that attracts you.

“But what if I can’t think of anything to say”, you asked.

Well, that’s why you want to have some canned openers prepared for multiple situations.  If you stock up those canned openers, you already know what to say.

“But what if I’m busy talking to a friend or is doing something else?”, you asked.

This is the tricky part, because the 3 seconds rule, though, not absolute.  If you are truly busy doing something else, that’s an exception.  Like I said, it’s absolute (and nothing is absolute).

The 3 seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her and are free to approach.  Just don’t use the “I’m busy” as an excuse to chicken out.

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