Comfort Ph.01 – Connection

MS0921 | Jun 16, 2010 | Comments 0

As mentioned in “The 3 Phases to Building Comfort“, the only difference between Comfort Ph.01, Comfort Ph.02, and Comfort Ph.03 is the location.

With that in mind, Comfort – Phase No.01 (or C1 for short) will take place at the meeting/pickup location. Let’s say you met the girl at the park. If this is the case, than Comfort – Phase No.01 should take place at the park.

During Comfort – Phase No.01, you want to build a sense of connection with the girl.

In order to establish a sense of connect with the girl, you must find out more about her by asking open-ended questions. You can ask her the following questions:

o1. It’s About Music

You: Anyway, what kind of music do you like?

Her: Linkin Park

You: Okay, what’s your favorite song? You know… that song that makes you feel good and warm inside every time you hear it.

Her: In the End

You: Yeah, really! I don’t like Linkin Park that much, but I really like the Korn. I mean, I have been to a concert performed by Linkin Park last year in Los Angeles. It was crazy. I love concert. I mean, I really like to go to concert, but not necessary about the music. I mean more about the energy and atmosphere. It’s totally different than anything else out there. Do you prefer hardcore dance music or are you more of a romantic and soft ballad lover?

2. Who Doesn’t Like to Travel?

You: Anyway, do you like to travel?

Her: Yes (Unless she’s retarded, she’ll say “Yes”. Come on, who doesn’t like to travel?)

You: Okay, tell me. If you wake up tomorrow somewhere on the planet…like anywhere, where would it be?

Her: Cuba

You: Yeah, Cuba is a nice place. I mean there are many different places to go. I love exploring those kinds of exotic places. I mean just chilling out at the beach, drinking cocktails, and just forget about the negative things in life. Just having that feeling…where you feel like you have nothing to worry about except having fun and enjoying yourself. And just pull your leg.