Dealing with Last Minute Resistance (LMR)

MS0921 | Jun 17, 2010 | Comments 0

“What is Last Minute Resistance (LMR)?”, you asked.

To answer your question, please read this article, “What is ‘Seduction – Phase No.02′?”

In this article, I’ll teach you how to deal with last minute resistance; but before I teach you what you should do, these are two things that you should not do:

1. Be Angry About Her Not Having Sex With You – If you get angry that she won’t have sex with you, you’re a loser and she shouldn’t have sex with you anyway. If you get angry, it’s an immediately turn off, and she’ll make sure you get none.

2. Beg For Sex - This one is just as bad as the one above. No matter what you do, please do not beg her for sex; it just lower your value and make you look like a wimp.

Okay, these are two things you should do if LMR ever occur (it will occur more often than not; be prepare for it):

1. Agree With Her - Agree with her and say, “I understand, we shouldn’t be doing this”; but continue the foreplay (kissing and fondling). Also, reverse role and say, “I shouldn’t be doing this”. By saying “I shouldn’t be doing this”, you are turning her into the pursuer. Basically, you’re reframing the situation where she is seducing you.

2. Take a Step Back – Another thing you can do is halt the interaction for a moment. During this time, you can just talk to her or cuddle with her until she’s calm again. After a few moments when she’s calm again, try initiating things and see what happens.

3. The “Freeze-Out” - The final thing you can do is called the “Freeze-Out”. With the Freeze-Out, you will show her that you’re not comfortable being in bed with her (this kind of make her feel like she’s a jerk). You can show her that you’re not comfortable being in bed with her by turning on the lights and go check your e-mail (remember, you must not do it angrily. Just casually get off the bed and leave her).

When you do this you are killing the seductive atmosphere and ruining the pleasant state you’ve built, which will cause her to feel unpleasant. As a result, she’ll be more receptive to getting back that feeling she lost.