What Will You Do After You Get Her?

MS0921 | Jul 10, 2010 | Comments 0

Many guys are afraid to approached women even after all the techniques and canned openers that they learned because of one silly reason. They don’t know what to do once they have the girl.

Most of them will say they want to make her his girlfriend, go on date with her, and finally have sex. But are you sure?

This is a lesson about inner game. You might know all the techniques and canned openers, but you don’t have the confident to use them.

You might think that your greatest fear is rejection, but that is not true. As human, we are rejected by other humans everyday for many reasons.

The greatest fear is not doing what do to once you get the girl. You are actually afraid of getting the girl.

To overcome this fear, ask your the following questions:

What do I want to do with the girl after I get her?
Do I have what it takes to accomplish the thing that I wanted to do?

In other words, let’s say you want to have sex with her. Do you have a seduction location? It is best that you at least have your own place. It can be a house or apartment. And if it’s just for sex, why not just hire a prostitute?

You want her to be your girlfriend? You do have time to date or just working your ass off to pay the bills.

Many dating coach will tell you that inner game is the key to dating success. And this is true. But just by telling yourself that you can do it, is not enough.

How do I improve my confidences? Well, if you want to start a relationship as an adult, make sure you have your own place. Living with your parents and having a healthy relationship is difficult.