4 Simple Steps to Meeting Someone New

MS0921 | Jul 12, 2010 | Comments 0

You saw a girl that you find attractive, but don’t know how to meet or start a conversation with her.

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 99% of the guy (or people, in general) in the world are like that.

And you will be miles ahead of them in the dating game if you follow these 4 simple steps to meeting someone:

1. Smile & Wave - A smile can take you a long way, but smiling alone isn’t enough, so add a little wave to it. Look at the girl you want to meet from afar until she look up and make eye contact with you.

After you have established eye contact, smile and wave. Make sure that she notice you checking her out.

A little smile and wave of the hand tells her that you are interested in meet and chat with her.

2. Be the One Who Speaks First - The saying goes, “don’t wait around for someone to come along and love you, but instead, go out and find someone to love”. If you’re a man, you have no choice but to follow this rule.

It have been said many times that women will not approach you (unless you’re a famous celebrity, such as Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt) .

It is a men’s job to take the first step. Please don’t be a loser and do otherwise.

3. Work Your Chit-Chat Charm - What will two people who have never spoke before talk about when they first met? The point is, because you just met, there’s so much to find out about each other that it seems silly when a guy say, “I don’t know what to talk about”.

The are many great subjects to talk about, but it’s best that you have some canned topics before you approach someone. You’re topic can be anything from the weather to what’s the most fun place to get together.

It is best that you obtain some story telling skills because being able to tell an interesting story can take you a long way. Girls love story.

4. Then…Stop Talking - It is a well know fact that girls like to talk about themselves or share their opinion on a subject (on second thought, who doesn’t). It is a good idea to set up an open-ended question, shut up, and listen.

People, in general, aren’t used to having other people really listen to them, especially girls. So, if you truly listen to what she have to say, you will win her over.

When asking a question, make sure that it’s an open-ended question, such as, “Do you think that men and women often misunderstand each other?” This is definitely a women type question, and you will get some replies.