Top 5 Alpha Male Characteristics
Modern Seduction | Jul 13, 2010 | Comments 0
“The Alpha Male” – In the animal kingdom, many species have a dominate male who have sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none. The term “Alpha Male” as I used it here, basically means a leader. Everyone love a person who is comfortable in his/her own skin, and everyone loves a leader.
Alpha male characteristics are common to all natural leaders, and naturally confident men. Listed below are a few common traits of an “Alpha Male”; see which of these traits you lack and adjust your behavior accordingly.
1. Never Qualifies Himself - The Alpha Male doesn’t qualify himself to anyone because he don’t care. They don’t boast about their success because he don’t need to. He doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone.
You might think that the Alpha Male is self-centered, but that’s not the case.
Some people just care too much about what people think about them. In my opinion, as long as you showered daily and try to look decent, everything about you should be fine.
2. Talks Slow & Clear - Talking fast is a way to qualify yourself to someone. When you talk fast, you are conveying that you are afraid that they won’t listen to you anymore.
Leaders often speak slowly and clearly because they want everyone to be able to hear and understand them.
When you talk too fast or too soft, you are showing a lack of confident. When you do this in front of a woman, you immediately show her that you are of lower status.
3. Comfortable in His Own Skin - Ultimately, the main trait of an Alpha Male is that he is comfortable in his own skin; and when you’re comfortable in your own skin, everything else will follow.
Comfortable in your own skin means being assertive enough to give your own opinion rather than jumping on the band wagon.
He chose to be himself rather than what others want him to be. He is happy and confident in any situation.
If he needs help, he’s not afraid to ask for it. And when he knows that someone needs help, he will voluntarily help them.
For example, if you’re at King Soopers looking at a model in a Low Rider magazine; don’t try to hide what you’re doing when someone walks by. This will only show your lack of confident and make you look weak.
Unless you’re doing something illegal, for example, trying to steal the magazine, you shouldn’t care. People’s just going to walk by and they don’t care about you checking out hot models from a magazine.
4. Enjoys a Challenge – Yielding to failure is definitely not an Alpha Male characteristics. It took Thomas Edison thousands of tries before he successfully invented the light bulb. He’s an example of an Alpha Male.
There are times when life can get a little rough on you. Life will push you around now and then without warning or apologies.
You will tell yourself, “no matter how many times I fall, I’ll get back up on my feet again because I’m an Alpha Male”.
5. The Ability to Lead a Group - If you can get people to willingly follow and respect you, then you are definitely an Alpha Male.
A leader have to think for his followers and lead them towards success because he knows that he cannot do everything by himself.
A leader knows how to bring out the best talents/skills from his peers. He’s not afraid to admit that he’s wrong and apologize for his mistake.
If you have all these characteristics, you are an Alpha Male. If you’re lacking a few characteristics, that’s fine; adjust your behavior accordingly.
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