How to Become Social Proof In a Bar

MS0921 | Jul 28, 2010 | Comments 0

Social proof is very important in the dating/picking up girls game. If you ever gone to the playboy mansion party you’ll notice that there are so many popular movie star and singers, but all the beautiful girls will stick to Hugh Hefner. This is because it’s his party and he’s social proof.

And today, I’ll show you a tactic that you can use to become social proof in a bar (or anywhere, as long as you can make this tactic seem natural).

#1. Approach a Beautiful Woman

Walk up to the most beautiful woman/girl in the bar (or anywhere) that everyone is looking at and start talking to her.

You asked, “But what if she rejected me?”

She won’t reject you, because you’re not hitting on her. Please, let me explain.

#2. Disqualify Yourself

You will approach her and ask the following question, “Excuse, I have a quick question do you mind? it’s just going to be a moment. I have a girlfriend and her style is very simpler to your style. I wanted to know what would be a good gift for her. I hope you can help me.

No one woman/girl will reject you after you’ve said something similar to that. Her protective shield is totally down because you said you already have a girlfriend. You can’t be hitting on her if you already have a girlfriend, can you?

#3. Make Eye Contact & Wave to Another Girl

While you’re talking to the beautiful girl, look around over her shoulder and find a hot girl. After you’ve found one that you like, make eye contact and wave at her (you’re doing this while talking to the beautiful girl).

If the hot girl doesn’t wave back, that’s okay because you can be waving to anyone. This should not create any awkward moment for you.

After successfully making eye contact and waving to the hot girl, you will say to the beautiful girl, “Excuse me, I just saw a friend over there. I’m going to go say “hi” really quick, but I’ll be back”.

#4. Approach the Hot Girl

You will now approach the hot girl, but with the beautiful girl watching you. And you don’t have to believe it, but no hot girl is going to reject you if you’re approaching her with a beautiful girl watching you and waiting for your return.

Basically, the most beautiful woman in the bar have pre-selected you. Now, you’ll have the social proof to approach anyone and everyone, and be accepted.