There’s a Fear That’s Greater Than Rejection
Modern Seduction | Jul 30, 2010 | Comments 0
Many men thinks they are afraid to approach women because of rejection or they just simply don’t know how to present themselves to the women, but there’s a greater fear that many don’t know about (evolutionarily speaking).
If you think about it, 5,000 years ago, there are not as many people as there are today. An average tribe would often consist of 50 to 100 people at most.
Let’s say that 25% are too young for you, 25% are too old for you, 25% are men, and 25% are women. But how many of those women are beautiful.
As you can see, the competition are high. But that’s still not the greater fear that I’m talking about.
The greater fear is what will happen to you after you approach the wrong woman and she rejected you?
The whole tribe only have about 25 women in total and women loves to gossip. If you approaches a women and she rejected you, she will go and tell all her friends that you’re not preselected. When that happens, no other woman in the tribe will consider you their mate.
Also, if you approach a beautiful woman and she happens to be the mate of a tribal leader, he and his friends will team up to kill you. Notice how in the animal kingdom, one male will sleep with all the females within one tribe while the other males get none until the alpha male die or when he grew strong enough to become alpha male himself.
Of course, you can leave the tribe and go find another tribe, but that’s too risky. 5,000 years ago, you can easily die of hunger or be killed by other tribes if you ever leave your tribe.
And that, folks, is the greater fear that we’re experiencing when we’re approaching a beautiful woman.
Of course, the world have changed a lot, but can a couple of hundred of years of social conditioning defeat what have been hard wired into us after a couple of thousands of years of evolution. I greatly doubt it.
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