“The Alpha Male” – In the animal kingdom, many species have a dominate male who have sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none. The term “Alpha Male” as I used it here, basically means a leader. Everyone love a person who is comfortable in his/her own skin, and everyone loves a leader.

Alpha male characteristics are common to all natural leaders, and naturally confident men. Listed below are a few common traits of an “Alpha Male”; see which of these traits you lack and adjust your behavior accordingly.

1. Never Qualifies Himself - The Alpha Male doesn’t qualify himself to anyone because he don’t care. They don’t boast about their success because he don’t need to. He doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone.

You might think that the Alpha Male is self-centered, but that’s not the case.

Some people just care too much about what people think about them. In my opinion, as long as you showered daily and try to look decent, everything about you should be fine.

2. Talks Slow & Clear - Talking fast is a way to qualify yourself to someone. When you talk fast, you are conveying that you are afraid that they won’t listen to you anymore.

Leaders often speak slowly and clearly because they want everyone to be able to hear and understand them.

When you talk too fast or too soft, you are showing a lack of confident. When you do this in front of a woman, you immediately show her that you are of lower status.

3. Comfortable in His Own Skin - Ultimately, the main trait of an Alpha Male is that he is comfortable in his own skin; and when you’re comfortable in your own skin, everything else will follow.

Comfortable in your own skin means being assertive enough to give your own opinion rather than jumping on the band wagon.

He chose to be himself rather than what others want him to be. He is happy and confident in any situation.

If he needs help, he’s not afraid to ask for it. And when he knows that someone needs help, he will voluntarily help them.

For example, if you’re at King Soopers looking at a model in a Low Rider magazine; don’t try to hide what you’re doing when someone walks by. This will only show your lack of confident and make you look weak.

Unless you’re doing something illegal, for example, trying to steal the magazine, you shouldn’t care. People’s just going to walk by and they don’t care about you checking out hot models from a magazine.

4. Enjoys a Challenge – Yielding to failure is definitely not an Alpha Male characteristics. It took Thomas Edison thousands of tries before he successfully invented the light bulb. He’s an example of an Alpha Male.

There are times when life can get a little rough on you. Life will push you around now and then without warning or apologies.

You will tell yourself, “no matter how many times I fall, I’ll get back up on my feet again because I’m an Alpha Male”.

5. The Ability to Lead a Group - If you can get people to willingly follow and respect you, then you are definitely an Alpha Male.

A leader have to think for his followers and lead them towards success because he knows that he cannot do everything by himself.

A leader knows how to bring out the best talents/skills from his peers. He’s not afraid to admit that he’s wrong and apologize for his mistake.

If you have all these characteristics, you are an Alpha Male. If you’re lacking a few characteristics, that’s fine; adjust your behavior accordingly.

Too many guys goes online to learn about meeting and attracting women, but that’s all they do.

There are thousands of tactics and techniques to seducing women out there that you can’t learn it all in a life time, but these guys never understand that.

So, what’s the point of learning all these great techniques to meeting and seducing women is all you do is sit home? You’re right, it’s pointless and a waste of time.

If you really want to be successful with women, you have to interact with them more; and you can’t do this in front of a computer reading tutorials like these.

What you need to do is learn what you can, than go out and use them and see the results in real life. Over time, you should become better because you are going out and trying these techniques.

This site and others will always here your reference to go back to when you suddenly forgot something.

But the point is for you to go out weekly and meet new women, because as the saying goes, “Reading a thousand books does not equal a mile journey” (or something like; and if you know the correct way to say it, please let me know so I can update).

So, you got the girl contact information and have built some comfort with her at the seduction location. But you were unable to have sex with her that day; now you wanted to meet her again, but doesn’t know where you should take her on the first date.

Well, there are plenty of good places as well as plenty of bad places to take a girl on the first date; these are 3 good locations:

1. Theme Park - Who doesn’t want to be at a place that is filled with laughter. Places such as Water World and Elitches Garden are perfect place to take a girl on a date.

Theme Parks are good choice for a date because there are so much you can do. If you run out of things to say (you shouldn’t be talking every second anyway), you can just go on a ride or take some pictures.

Also, girls crave excitement, but very few guys know this and took their girl to the movie or dinner for a date instead.

Note: If it’s winter and Water World and Elitches are not open, take the girl ice skating. If you don’t know how to ice skate, you two can learn together (but it’s best if you do, so you can teach her).

2. The Zoo - Every girl/woman I’ve met loves animals and the zoo have lots of them. This is a location where the two of you can walk around checking out the animals while finding out more about each other.

Having a conversation while walking around checking out animals and taking pictures is much more fun compared to talking over a meal at the restaurant.

In the restaurant situation, if you run out of things to say, all you can do is stare at each other; and that’s no fun.

Note: Movies and dinner is fine, but only when you already slept with the girl. Only after you have slept with the girl will you know her well enough to go on dates to places such as the movie theater or restaurant.

3. Hiking & Nature Walks - Local city, state or national parks almost always have hiking and nature trails. Throw some drinks or a lunch in a backpack and have fun.

Also, remember to bring along a camera to take some picture.

Everyone love to be outside on a beautiful day, unless you’re a vampire. Most girls never get the chance to do this.

Note: As you can tell, I’m a adventurous type of guy. Most of the stuff I like to do is outdoor, except for sex; I prefer to have sex indoor on a comfortable bed.

These type of dates are only my suggestions and might not work for everyone, but it does take away from the traditional dates; the movie and dinner at a nice restaurant. Women/Girls will thank you in their own special way for it.

Once, I took a girl to the zoo on our first date, and she told me that it’s the most adventurous place she’s been to on a date.

I mean, come on, the zoo? What does this tell you?

Well, what it tells me is that most guys are boring and take their girlfriend to boring places on their date(s). Like I said earlier, girls/women will thank you in their own special way for it.

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The “3 Seconds Rule” was coined by famous PUA, Mystery.  The purpose of the 3 seconds rule is to propel you to approach a woman before your fear kicks in and stop you.

When most guys see a beautiful woman, they often think, “what is she don’t like me, what if her boyfriend is around, she probably don’t like me anyway, etc.

These negative thoughts usually kicks in when you are preparing to approach and it happens to the best of us.  So, what do you do?  You approach fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation.

With the 3 seconds rule, you don’t need to wait for eye contact or for an opportunity to present itself, but rather, you will go straight in the moment to see a girl/woman that attracts you.

“But what if I can’t think of anything to say”, you asked.

Well, that’s why you want to have some canned openers prepared for multiple situations.  If you stock up those canned openers, you already know what to say.

“But what if I’m busy talking to a friend or is doing something else?”, you asked.

This is the tricky part, because the 3 seconds rule, though, not absolute.  If you are truly busy doing something else, that’s an exception.  Like I said, it’s absolute (and nothing is absolute).

The 3 seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her and are free to approach.  Just don’t use the “I’m busy” as an excuse to chicken out.

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Actually, women are everywhere, but the following are the more popular locations:

1.  Clubs - There are plenty of women in clubs, but I wouldn’t recommend this location.  First of all, women are on meat market in the club and have their defense system up way too high.  The clubs are too loud to have a conversation.  Most girls goes to clubs with their friends, and it’s hard to separate them, and you can’t seduce a girl while talking to a group.  Clubs are too dark; that beautiful girl that you picked up might not be so beautiful in daylight.

Note: Clubs are better left to the more experienced PUAs and guys who can dance.  When I go to club my main intention is to have fun and enjoy.  If you have girls on your mind every minute, you might not be enjoying yourself, and she’ll know.

2. The Mall - Girls love shopping, so the mall is a great location to meet them.  The mall is not loud like a club, which makes conversation possible.

3. College/University - Girls are all over college/university.  In my opinion, this is the easiest location to find and seduce a girl.

Note: It is rumored that college girls have fragile legs.  In other words, their legs are easy to spread; they want to meet a guy and have a relationship/sex.

4. The Park - I have seen so many beautiful girls at the park that it’ll be stupid to not try and pick one of them up.  Most of them are with friends, but there are few who are there alone.  Maybe she’s hoping that a guy will come along and pic her up.

5.  Everywhere - The truth is, beautiful girls/women are everywhere.  They are at Best Buy, buying ink for their printer, they are at McDonald buying a drink, they are working at a restaurant (please be respectful to girls/women while they are working), etc.

Note: The point is, you must be prepare when the woman of your dream come around.  It is recommended that you don’t try to be something that your not, but do yourself a favor and be prepared by having some canned openers to initiate a conversation.

The last thing you want is for the woman of your dream to walk by and you don’t want what to say. Most guys can start a conversation on the fly, but most can’t.

You just a girl that you like, but she said, “I already have a boyfriend”.

This is a though one to deal with because she may be telling the truth; she does have a boyfriend. But this shouldn’t stop you from going a little further.

Search has it, that a girl is single again within three months.

Besides, most girls just use the “I already have a boyfriend” line to test guys. If you quit too soon, you might be missing out.

Think about it, just because she have a boyfriend doesn’t mean that she will be with him forever. Even marriage end up in divorce.

You may be thinking to yourself, “But I don’t want to ruin a good relationship”. Well, if the girl is happy within her relationship with a guy, there’s no way that any other guy can break it. The question is, is she totally happy within her relationship?

So, the next time when a girl tell you that she already have a boyfriend, counter her statement with, “Oh, how does it feel to be in the perfect relationship?”

Note: I have asked this same question with a girl who told me she already have a boyfriend. It turns out that she and her boyfriend are having problems and they’re near the verge of separating.

I talked to her for a while and gave her my phone number. A few weeks later, she and her boyfriend broke up and she called me and ask if I have time to hang out. And as you already guessed, the rest is history.

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