Gamblers say they get more women, but that’s not true.  Gamblers only get women when they win money, therefore, it’s the money that gets the women.

But are women/girl really attracted to money?  I doubt it because some guys don’t have any money and they still gets women/girl.

So, what are women attracted to anyway?

In my experience, there’s only one thing that women are attracted to, and that’s men with social status/survival value.

There are people who committed suicide because of a sudden depression or blue, but the truth is everyone wants to survive.

By nature, women are the weaker sex.  And when you’re weak, it’s in your favor to align with someone who is strong enough to protect you or simply help you survive.

5,000 years ago, women are attracted to muscular men because these men can hunt and provide shelter.  Men without muscle (or simply weaker men) will find it harder to accomplish these tasks.

Today, the situation is different because we’re under the protect of laws and polices, therefore, you’ll find most women attracted to something else of high value, and that’s money.

With money you can hire muscular men to protect you as bodyguard and buy anything and everything you ever wanted.  Today, women are attracted to money because money can help them survive.

Therefore, people who say women are attracted to muscular men or money is all wrong.  They are attracted to one thing and one thing only, and that’s survival value.

As long as you can make her perceive you as valuable (in the survival sense), she’s yours for keep (or you can do with her anyway you want).

And the good news is you don’t have to have a lot of muscle or a lot money to be perceived as valuable in the eyes of a woman.

You saw a girl that you find attractive, but don’t know how to meet or start a conversation with her.

Don’t worry, you’re not alone.  About 99% of the guy (or people, in general) in the world are like that.

And you will be miles ahead of them in the dating game if you follow these 4 simple steps to meeting someone:

1.  Smile & Wave - A smile can take you a long way, but smiling alone isn’t enough, so add a little wave to it.  Look at the girl you want to meet from afar until she look up and make eye contact with you.

After you have established eye contact, smile and wave.  Make sure that she notice you checking her out.

A little smile and wave of the hand tells her that you are interested in meet and chat with her.

2.  Be the One Who Speaks First - The saying goes, “don’t wait around for someone to come along and love you, but instead, go out and find someone to love”.  If you’re a man, you have no choice but to follow this rule.

It have been said many times that women will not approach you (unless you’re a famous celebrity, such as Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt) .

It is a men’s job to take the first step.  Please don’t be a loser and do otherwise.

3. Work Your Chit-Chat Charm - What will two people who have never spoke before talk about when they first met?  The point is, because you just met, there’s so much to find out about each other that it seems silly when a guy say, “I don’t know what to talk about”.

The are many great subjects to talk about, but it’s best that you have some canned topics before you approach someone.  You’re topic can be anything from the weather to what’s the most fun place to get together.

It is best that you obtain some story telling skills because being able to tell an interesting story can take you a long way.  Girls love story.

4. Then…Stop Talking - It is a well know fact that girls like to talk about themselves or share their opinion on a subject (on second thought, who doesn’t).  It is a good idea to set up an open-ended question, shut up, and listen.

People, in general, aren’t used to having other people really listen to them, especially girls.  So, if you truly listen to what she have to say, you will win her over.

When asking a question, make sure that it’s an open-ended question, such as, “Do you think that men and women often misunderstand each other?”  This is definitely a women type question, and you will get some replies.

You just a girl that you like, but she said, “I already have a boyfriend”.

This is a though one to deal with because she may be telling the truth; she does have a boyfriend. But this shouldn’t stop you from going a little further.

Search has it, that a girl is single again within three months.

Besides, most girls just use the “I already have a boyfriend” line to test guys. If you quit too soon, you might be missing out.

Think about it, just because she have a boyfriend doesn’t mean that she will be with him forever. Even marriage end up in divorce.

You may be thinking to yourself, “But I don’t want to ruin a good relationship”. Well, if the girl is happy within her relationship with a guy, there’s no way that any other guy can break it. The question is, is she totally happy within her relationship?

So, the next time when a girl tell you that she already have a boyfriend, counter her statement with, “Oh, how does it feel to be in the perfect relationship?”

Note: I have asked this same question with a girl who told me she already have a boyfriend. It turns out that she and her boyfriend are having problems and they’re near the verge of separating.

I talked to her for a while and gave her my phone number. A few weeks later, she and her boyfriend broke up and she called me and ask if I have time to hang out. And as you already guessed, the rest is history.

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