Aba & Preach are telling guys NOT to approach women.
They claim that in today’s social climate, men are risking too much by approaching girls.
With the recent prevalence of famous men getting canceled or me-too’d (sometimes deservedly…)
Some men feel like approaching an attractive girl can be a risky endeavor.
And it certainly does not help that the media’s portrayal tends towards extremes.
I am not surprised that many men are apprehensive about the idea of striking up a conversation with a woman that they don’t know.
However, these situations are being overly-represented by a few very famous men.
The truth is, there are risks any time you engage the opposite sex.
But these risks seem to be overblown by a narrative driven by a few specific cases that just about everybody happens to know about, as opposed to the average guy’s dating life.
As a man, you should err on the side of caution.
But that does not mean abstaining from talking to women in real life entirely.
Or switching over to dating apps exclusively.
But do so with empathy.
While a girl may not always explicitly tell you where she’s at emotionally, it’s not that hard to tell what she feels if you pay close attention.
Listen and pay close attention to her.
It’s not just about what you want.
I don’t think I need to say this, but you need to consider what she wants.
As long as you do these things, you will end up on the right side of things the vast majority of time.
That doesn’t mean you won’t get rejected.
What it means is that you CAN still hit on women without being pushy or creepy.