Opening, vibing, and simply having a conversation with women is something that 99% of guys get wrong. I’ve seen guys just as clueless as ever in these areas, even after going out for years.
Well… this is the reason:
Does the phrase… It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it… ring a bell?
You don’t need Shakespearean verbal ability to charm her pants off, dude.
But having the right vibe or energy is crucial.
It’s estimated that the actual words that come out of your mouth only make-up 9% of what is communicated in an interaction.
The other 91% comes from other places:
Body language, tone, and overall vibe are the real culprits!
It’s fine if you want to spend a little bit of time putting together some lines or routines, but at the end of the day you’re not fooling anyone!
And sure, maybe having some lines prepared can help your overall confidence, vibe, demeanor, whatever… (which is what matters the most!)
Your focus should go elsewhere, though.
Funnily enough, it should be a relief that you don’t have to worry so much about what to say!
You can have the confidence that whatever you say is more than good enough.